cookie_bastard (![[info]](http://p-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} cookie_bastard) wrote,@ 2008-03-30 09:52:00 |
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Oh, Duh
I forgot to blog about this like I said I would.
I totally askedfeigenbaum_04 out on a date-date last week. She was at my birthday party with some of my other friends, and several people asked me why I hadn't asked her out because they saw a connection. Plus some things struck a chord in me. She had said I needed to find a girl who had her head on straight, and I don't know another girl who has a head straighter than hers. I mean, she also said I need to spend some time alone, but I chose to ignore that part when I asked her out.
Also, she said she is used to getting to know people as friends and dating them from there, and we've been friends for a long time. After all that I figured what's the worst that could happen?
Well, actually the worst that could happen is that I ask and it ends up ruining our friendship, but I didn't think that was possible.
Anyway, I asked, and she said she didn't really see me that way, in a date-date way. She said I was like a sister to her, which was slightly emasculating cause she could have said LIKE A BROTHER, but it's all good. I know what she means though, I've always been more like "one of the girls" much in the same way that the occaisional girl feels like "one of the guys." I've never been "one of the guys." I've always had more female friends than guy friends. Even now, I have two or three guy friends and a slew of girl friends.
So I'll be content with havingfeigenbaum_04 as a great friend.
Plus talking about her in my LJ would be a little weird since she is on my flist.
I forgot to blog about this like I said I would.
I totally asked
feigenbaum_04 out on a date-date last week. She was at my birthday party with some of my other friends, and several people asked me why I hadn't asked her out because they saw a connection. Plus some things struck a chord in me. She had said I needed to find a girl who had her head on straight, and I don't know another girl who has a head straighter than hers. I mean, she also said I need to spend some time alone, but I chose to ignore that part when I asked her out.Also, she said she is used to getting to know people as friends and dating them from there, and we've been friends for a long time. After all that I figured what's the worst that could happen?
Well, actually the worst that could happen is that I ask and it ends up ruining our friendship, but I didn't think that was possible.
Anyway, I asked, and she said she didn't really see me that way, in a date-date way. She said I was like a sister to her, which was slightly emasculating cause she could have said LIKE A BROTHER, but it's all good. I know what she means though, I've always been more like "one of the girls" much in the same way that the occaisional girl feels like "one of the guys." I've never been "one of the guys." I've always had more female friends than guy friends. Even now, I have two or three guy friends and a slew of girl friends.
So I'll be content with having
feigenbaum_04 as a great friend.Plus talking about her in my LJ would be a little weird since she is on my flist.
